“Attractive arguments” is the law of attraction, at least when it comes to electricity. But are there rules about attraction between two people? “In a world full of strangers,” as the line on the famous 1980’s song goes, are there clear rules that allow two people to fall in love?
Is Attraction A Chemical Issue?
It is possible. According to scientists, the attraction of the opposite sex to a chemical call pheromones. The effect of pheromones on insect behaviour is the most widely studied. At least in other studies, it has been noted that pheromones are responsible for the interaction between the same species and the ant colony. The pungent odour that the pellets emit to prevent enemies are called pheromones. Some species of monkeys rub pheromone-containing urine on the feet of potential mates to attract attention. This genetic diversity is important in producing offspring that have a better chance of survival. The perfume industry has made extensive use of pheromones to increase the sexual attraction of the opposite sex. Animals such as whales and musk deer were hunted for these chemicals.
Recently, scientists have looked at the pheromones’ presence and their role in selecting a mate. There are many conflicting theories in the field of biology, chemistry, genetics, and psychology. Most scientists would argue that these substances do not exist, or if they do exist, do not contribute to the sexual attraction between a man and a woman. But a new study by Swiss researchers from the University of Bern, led by Klaus Wedekind, gradually led scientists to reconsider their position.
Their efforts have involved women sniffing cotton men’s cotton shirts during their puberty. It has been found that women like the smell of different genetic shirts and share similarities with women’s genes. This, as in the case of insects and other mammals, was to ensure better and healthier traits for their future offspring. But researchers also warn that male pattern baldness is a major factor in female pregnancy, men’s diet, perfume, and other aromatic products, as well as the use of birth control pills.
Is Personality Reflected In Sexual Attraction?
Yes, but so does the way you view your future spouse. According to a study conducted by Klohnen, E.C., & S. Luo in 2003 on the attraction of humans and the environment, one’s sense of self-defense and at least one’s perception of one’s partner finds it to be a powerful attraction in thought. What does this tell us? We prefer a certain type of personality, which attracts you to the person.
But apart from the person’s true personality, which you can only confirm through close communication over time, your opinion of your potential partner is attractive to you, whether your partner has that kind of personality or not. This may have triggered a common statement to make men and women in their failed relationships: “I thought you were the type of person.”
So How Does Attraction Appear In a Relationship?
You may have heard that attraction is a prelude to a relationship. It is very possible, at least initially, but interest alone cannot make a relationship work. That’s what attracts you to a person of the opposite sex, but once you get to know that person better, interest is one consideration. Shared values, dreams, and aspirations become more important in a long-term relationship.
So Should I Stop Trying To Be Attractive?
In addition to trying to be physically fit, work on all aspects of your life: physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual. Physical attraction is still a prelude. Remember, biology threatens us to choose a partner over very healthy genes. When your emotions trouble, ask yourself: ‘Would you like to spend time with someone you feel insecure about? Probably not! There is wisdom in knowing who you are: who you are, your beliefs, your values, and your dreams.
To deceive someone by making him think that you have the same goals and beliefs will only frustrate the two of you. When you are healthy in every way, the attraction is the result and not the end. As noted in the study of Klohnen and Luo, the concept of self-defence is important, perhaps even more so. . Only then can you combine your appeal as a person?